D.R.E.A.M.S.

    Today I'm going to talk about dreams. Why? Because most people have them, whether they are; daydreams, deja vu, sweet dreams or etc. The most feared dreams are nightmares. Even though our dreams only last for seconds at a time, they still are the greatest power to possess :)    
    Dreams are created by the mind. They can be triggered by things we see or do. They can also be triggered by our actions or feelings. But the scientific definition is the subjective experience of imaginary images, sounds/voices, thoughts or sensations during sleep. Our dreams play out our likes, dislikes, our inner, most treasured secrets and desires. They also hold what we are most afraid of, as known as nightmares. But this topic is all about happy thoughts and dreams.

But now that we know what dreams are, why do why do we have them? My take on why we have them is, to just use our minds to imaginate. Think creatively through sleep. Our dreams let our minds explore the things we are afraid to say and/or do.

     I love being able to go to sleep at night and drift off into a nice, peaceful sleep. To let my body be completely relaxed, whenever I get into the comfort position that is :) After I get it right, I'm good to go. Dream Heaven here I come. And when I dream, it's the best thing ever. I dream of becoming a famous, model, actress, fashion designer, singer and dancer. I know alot of professions lol. It's MY DREAM. LOL

    That's what I dream about most of my nights. And what makes me love to go to sleep even more is, that my dreams are always reoccurring. If I'm dreaming a great dream and I have to wake up to use the bathroom, I don't stress about it because when I lay back down and close my eyes, I can continue where I left off.  SWEET DREAM or BEAUTIFUL NIGHTMARE, there's nothing like a good dream :)

    That's what I love most about dreams, they are created by Our Minds and that we are in control of them. And No one can change or take that away from us.

     With that said, DREAM BIG, OR DON'T SLEEP LOL

 

La Creativity :)

     Hello World! How's everyone? All Smiles I'm sure. But if not I'll make sure you leave with one :) This Blog will be dedicated to the creative minds out there. Everyone, when it comes down to it is a creative fellow or gal. No matter if you show your creativity by painting or wanting to create new spaceships :) As long as your out there DOING something YOU Absolutely Love TO Do.
Go Out Enjoy Yourself AND Change The World One Paintbrush, Pencil, Ruler, Speaker, Ball Player, Future Nurse or Doctor, Or Maybe Even The Next President At a Time. 
     But just remember only you can be in control of your own destiny. Don't let NOONE, not even yourself discourage you from going after your dreams no matter how far your DREAMS May seem. If God See's It, He'll MAKE a way for you to see it through as well. 

               GO CREATE! and Get Those MINDS GOIN'

    And since were talking about being creative here, I'll share some of my creativity with a poem called: IMAGINATED BEAUTY:
Your eyes said it all
You looked like God's Greatest Gift
Your Beauty shows from head to toe
You've wanted nothing more than to say YOU were Mines
Your Beauty runs More than skin deep
You are TRAPPED within the chambers of  MY HEART
YOU make the gates to my heart OPEN with ease
my Heart pumps wild from the THOUGHT of you
CRAZY LOVE rushes through my Veins
It Seems Silly To Say that you were only and IMAGE from my Mind
You Seemed SO REAL, So Lively, So TruE
But You Faded AWAY BeFore I Said Those 3 Little Words
I LOVE YOU

Love ANYONE???

     What can I say about love? It's a touchy subject that everyone is talking about. Some people don't find love easier than others and that's ok. Your road to love no matter fast or even a long road trip, Love is always a subject that has many sides. Multiple feelings and emotions come about when your in love, or even when you have strong feelings for someone. The feeling of anxiousness, nervousness and smiles. Hard, cheezing, cool-aid smiles. You Smile hard like McDonald's had a free burger day lol. If that was to happen I would definitely smile harder than a kid in a candy store lol. I love me some McDonald's. But back to being in love. Why do we feel this way. Nothing can get us happier like love can, unless its pay day lml.  Ya'll know it's the truth too. You there sitting looking at your screen smiling at this comment. Why? Because your in love and your boss just gave you your check that same day. LOL. I would be happy to :) But if you did get your check, try not to blow it all on one thing. That's my advice to you. Spend that money wisely :) But that's what love can do to you. Especially if your buying gifts.  

     Especially if  it's that FIRST TIME LOVE. Ya'll know what that is. It's that love a first sight type of feeling. Like you know it when you see it and everything about it feels right. You talk on the phone for countless hours, and if one of you fall asleep they are still on the phone knowing they are running up the phonebill without a care lol. Your smiling once again like how did she know. We've all been there before. That's why unlimited minutes were invented: for people in love especially first timers.

     Next its Been There For A While Type of Love. This love consists of being in a relationship for quite some time and when you two talk you know what the other is thinking without even saying it. You Just click. You go together like a puzzle with the matching piece. The two of you are a perfect match and once you put all of your pieces together its hard to break them apart. Love that' s far from Beginner's Love but far less than Seasoned Love. Playful Times. Serious PDA's without a care. Got You Playing Love Songs in The Shower Knowing you can't sang at all, but that dont stop you from trying. Why you ask? Because your in Love Silly. Everyone know's that love can make you do crazy things. Make you start singing love songs trying to hit every high note. lol.

    Then you have that Been together for a Great While Type of Love. And when I say a Great while I mean for a few years. That love that let you know it's worth lasting and it's going to last. The Love where you can look at the love of your life, gaze into their beautiful eyes and know it all, whether it's the NOW,PRESENT & FUTURE. The look that say's, "Babe I love You And this is FOREVER". And if they didn't know it then, they know it now, YOUR the One they've been waiting for all their life.

     With that said it brings us to Engagement & Wedding Bell Love. This love is no joke for me I believe once I say I Do that's it. Why would I say all of those vows and not mean a single thing. And I know things happen, because that's life and nothing goes as planned but if you can work it out please do, especially if he or she is truly worth it. In the words of Tim Gunn, "Make it work". Lol. Call Whoever You gotta call to make your relationship a lasting one, even if the one you call on is God, who ears are always listening. He hears and Sees All.

    And last but not least there's Seasoned Love. This Love is Love After Marriage, Children, and Real Couple Problems take place. This is where the real testing begins. This is where as a couple you go through ups & downs, twists & turns all to come out winners. Couples that last through this stage can last through anything. And when I say anything, I mean EVERY & ANY THING. The type of love where you can sit on the porch with the love of your life and still have that same loving look in your eyes you did many years before. That look won't ever fade. That's how you know you have long & ever lasting love. Love With Smiles Upon Your Faces. Pure Blissful Love. I would hope the Man God Blesses ME with gives me all of these Stages Of Love. And YOU who is READING this, I hope He Blesses You as well.

SHARE A SMILE. ENBRACE IN A HUG. GIVE A KISS. THINK WITH MIND,BODY&SOUL. & BE HAPPILY IN LOVE.

RELIGION & Deep Thoughts anyone ???

     The one thing someone can't take is there spiritual beliefs. As we all know people out in the world are being beaten, killed or close to it. But the one thing they seem to have is their religion in life or death. It sticks with them forever, unless they convert into something else, which isn't a problem you are who you are and change isn't always a bad thing. Everyone has some type of guidance of some sort.
     No matter what race you have, as a human being you have some type of figure you truly look up to for guidance and spiritual help. And I'm not one to judge anyone. We all have our beliefs and disbeliefs. Whether you believe in God, Allah, The Pope or Noone at all. I'm all for it. Like the older generations say, " If you like it, I love it". That's how I feel. If you don't have a belief in any higher power that's great, but who do you have in your corner when the chips are down and you can't confine in anyone else? You could talk to yourself aloud but what good does that do? You already know what's wrong with you. Someone else should know as well. But it's your choice to open up.

    Why? There was a time when I wanted to talk to people but were afraid of the things that they had to say. But at the end of the day everyone is entitled to their own opinion no matter good or bad. Getting back to me. I know how it feels to be judged or at least feel that way. I know how it feels to feel alone and alienated, depressed. To have restless nights and long days because of feeling like noone understands me. It was worse for me when I started j.h.s. and i found out what feeling depressed felt like because of cruel kids with teasing and bullying. We've all been through it. But I'm truly upset it took so long for any type of bullying to be called out. Being a child, or a tween your scared to tell anyone, even an adult because you feel at some point it will stop taunting you. Or you thinking you can handle it, know deep down inside you can't. We all of the above was me back in school. Crying didn't help, over eating didn't help but it sure did taste good :) Over sleeping didn't help and feeling sorry for myself definitely didn't do any good the only thing it did for me is make matters worse, until I opened up to a guidence counselor and she helped me so much. The way I was feeling is common especially starting jhs and h.s. Where every face is a new one and pratically everyone is bigger than you. It can be scary. It's like one of the best experiences or so they say turn out to be a living nightmare. And its sad when a young adult feels they have to take drastic measures when it comes to dealing with things.
    And at that time in my life, I knew of God but I didn't know Him. I've heard of His powers but I didn't confind in him. Many People came up to me telling me stories of how God helped or healed them and I didn't even know how to pray. I though yeah right God can't help me out. Its no use, its time wasting or so I thought. I was making a easy life changing step very hard when it truly wasn't. Now my boo Jesus talk from time to time and our relationship isn't as rocky as it started out.

     All I'm saying is just talk to someone you truly believe is for you no matter its your mom, dad , brother, sister, teacher, preacher, a bus driver, a dog or a cat or maybe your best friend; as long as your getting your deep feelings out there its all good for the heart, soul, mind, and mouth.

      All you have to do is just open your mouth, speack slowly, confidently, & clear. After you do this your on your way to a better place mentally, physically and spiritually wise.

SO HAPPY TALKING.

Let's TALK Future

     First off let me say hello and thank you for dropping by. i also would like to say, i hope this helps you out in any way. now that that's out of the way, we can get to the real talk. since being out of high school for close to 2 years now, i've been all over the place when it comes to figuring out my plans for the future. i can tell you that my road to FUTURE hasn't been a great one and since i'm giving out truth, i'm starting to understand that it may take years to figure it out, and its normal. no two people are alike. but figuring it out is even harder if your a very undecided gal or guy such as myself.
      The things i wanted to do such as joining the army. i know reading this you are shocked and like you members of my family were shocked as well. i know well you see all the commecials talking about Here the call? if so go to goarmy.com.well i thought i heard the call but i think my ears were clogged. lol. i went to the army recruit place in my neighborhood and i got to meet some of the nicest men in uniforms. they were so nice and down to earth. they were far from mean, loud, obnoxious and thats what made my en route: army process easier and a whole lot of fun. as you can see the process turned into a dud because of Me.
      Next. i also thought about becoming an EMT but once again i didnt have a certificate in medical help and i didnt have money for the test, & no license. so that was crossed out on my list.
      So i went on down the line to job aplications, which are still pending. or at least thats what i think is going on lol. yall know about the whole recession topic so i dont even gotta start with that.
      At one point i also thought about calling up everest. those commercials be on every second and now they have alot of females talking about how it helped them get their life together, so i thought to give it a try. which didnt work out because i wanted to go on campus and they only offered me a online school. so i crossed that one off the list too. but i dont want to leave the everest subject as of yet. some of the commercials are less anoying like the black girl who got tired of her customers complaining, so she called and then she graduated, had a job and ate dinner all in 3 minutes lol. i swear if it was that sinple. fast and easy do you know how many colleges and thing i would have done within and hour. lml. just talking truth. humorous truth. i would have had a masters in multiple subjects by now lol. but again thats a commercial and it may be real for her, but it sure aint for me.
      My journey to future isn't a fast one. its a long process and you have to be patient in order to deal.but im proud to say that i could be some place worse if i didn't have people that i love unconditionally behind me the whole way no matter what choice and decisions ive made, smart or silly they were there to  support me the whole way through. and if you'd ask me where they are now? i'd give you the same answer, HERE.
      In closing no matter if your in college, working, sitting on your ass with a mouth full of lays chips and a coke and a smile, just remember things dont always come easy and it takes strength, determination, will-power, a good mind and heart in an AMAZING person to see it through.
Thank you.